Kgaolo ya 4
Bana ke mpho e kgolo go di gaisa tsotlhe tse batho ba di neilweng.
Gompieno ke tlile go abelana karolo ya Kgaolo 4 ya buka ya me – “Embracing the Gift of Parenthood: How to Create a Loving Relationship with Your Children”.
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Eno ke kgaogelo fela ya kgaolo e e latelang!
Kgaolo ya bone
Ke ka ntlha yang fa ke le tsala ya gago, e seng tsala ya gago.
Ke a lemoga
Ke a itse gore o lebeletse gore ke tseye maikarabelo a me masisi mme ke tlhaloganya gore nka se kgone go nna tsala ya gago le Mokaedi wa Mowa ka nako e le nngwe.
Potso:
Ke ka ntlha yang fa re sa tshwanela go nna ditsala tsa rona le “kaelo ya moya” ka nako e le nngwe?
Ke a itse gore o ka tswa o bua sentle go ya ka tlhaloso eo, ke akanya gore jaaka motsadi ke tshwanelwa ke tlhaloso eo. Ee, re ka nna ra lekana le tlhaloso ya bobedi, mme ga re a tshwanela go tsena mo tlhalosong ya ntlha. Tsala ke motho yo o ka nnang le kamano le wena botshelo jotlhe jwa gago, mme jaaka batsadi ga re kitla re tsewa re tlwaelane le bana ba rona. Ditsala ga di kitla di dira peeletso mo botshelong jwa gago jaaka motsadi a dira. Ditsala gantsi di rata ka maemo mme batsadi ka tlholego ya rona ba tshwanetse go rata ntle le maemo. Ditsala tsa gago di ka go tsaya kgotsa tsa go tlogela. Ditsala di kgona go thusana. Ditsala di ka nna tsa bua maaka e bile di a tsietsana. Ditsala tsa gago di na le boitlhophelo jwa go go thusa ka dinako tse di molemo le tse di bosula. Batsadi ga ba na boikgethelo jono. Go botlhokwa gore rona jaaka batsadi re nne le kitso e e utlwalang sentle le e e tlhomameng ya boitekanelo jwa bana ba rona. Ga o ka ke wa kgona go naya bana melaetsa e e farologaneng.
Bana ga ba tlhoke gore re tshwane le bone. Ba batla gore o nne le maatla le botlhale. Batsadi ba le bantsi ba wela mo serung sa maikutlo sa go batla go itumedisa bana ba bone le go nna ditsala tsa bone. Le fa go ntse jalo, ba tlhoka lorato le lorato mo e leng gore ba akanya gore bana ba bone ba ka kgona go dira jalo. Ga se boikarabelo jwa ngwana go tlatsa diphatlha tsa gago. Fa go na le dikarolwana tsa mowa wa gago tse o akanyang gore ga di na sepe e bile di sule, ke ka ntlha ya gore o leka go rarabolola maemo a gago a botho ka dilo tsa nakwana go na le ka maikutlo a a tseneletseng a kgolagano ya semowa le kamano le “Moya o Mogolo”. Please don’t bring life in the world to try to complete your “self”. O tla nna le sengwe le sengwe se o se tlhokang, fela jaaka bana ba gago ba dira. O tlhoka fela go batla boammaaruri ka dimpho tsa gago le go dirisa dimpho tseno go galaletsa maikaelelo a “Mowa o Mogolo” mo botshelong jwa gago mme seno se tla go tlisetsa maikutlo a a itekanetseng, kagiso le boitumelo.
O na le boikarabelo jwa go sekaseka gore go nna motsadi mo baneng ba rona go kaya eng. O tshwanetse go ba bolelela gore ga re ditsala tsa gago. Lona baeteledipele ba mowa wa lefatshe la batsadi ba bone. O na le boikarabelo jwa go ba direla bongwana jwa gago ka botlalo le go ba bolelela gore o na le maikarabelo a go ba direla eng mo botshelong jwa gago. Ga o a tshwanela go ba solofetsa dilo tse o ka se kgoneng go di dira kgotsa tse o ka se kgoneng go di dira. Lefoko la gago le tshwanetse go nna le boammaaruri le go ikanyega. O tshwanetse wa itse gore jaaka motsadi wa gago, ka dinako tse dingwe o ka nna wa re ee, mme ka dinako tse dingwe o ka nna wa re nnyaa. O tshwanetse go ba bolelela gore ka metlha o tla leka go ba naya sengwe le sengwe se ba se tlhokang, le sengwe le sengwe se ba se batlang. O tshwanetse go ba ruta mo lefatsheng la mmatota gore ga go na selo se se tshwanang le go kgotsofala ka bonako. Ba lemoge gore tshwanelo e le nngwe fela ya mmatota e ba nang le yone ke go ratwa le go tlhokomelwa ke wena. Wena jaaka motsadi o tshwanetse go nna le maemo a a kopaneng le a a sa fetogeng a lelapa la gago le bana ba gago. Ga go kgonege gore “dira se ke se buang e seng se ke se dirang”. Gakologelwa gore o sekao se se botlhokwa thata sa gore go nna mogolo yo o nang le seabe se se siameng le se se siameng.
