I’m Just Sayin-#181 Sometimes it’s More Productive to “Shower People with Kindness”, then to be Combative!
Stay close to the shoreline where lies your place of peace, happiness and contentment in life! Don’t let other people’s need to “Control” and “Be Right”, take you out of yourself and plunge you into their “drama”.
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Listen! Trust me! I have lived long enough to know that trying to persuade people to understand your point of view, or your opinion on how to do something, or trying to convince them that something is not in their best interest, takes a lot of time and energy that could better serve the quality and joy of your own life. Thinking that people actually hear what you are saying is also an interesting perception because as a speech major, a hundred years ago, I learned that there is always something missing in translation, even when we speak the same language.
We are not really tuned into another person’s thoughts and interpretation of the experiences they have in life that ultimately color and structure how they process what they “think they heard us say”! Communication -language- is probably the most difficult and frustrating function of the human design.
I dare say, God has probably improved His second generation – specie of what He has created since us!! I know He has been more frustrated than us, on how limited we are in communicating and responding to each other in a civil and productive way. I just know we have blown His mind! So, on that note, I strongly suggest that we develop the practice of merely expressing our thoughts, feelings, and opinions, and then step back and let people do with the information as they please.
The other part of that is to remember to come to people with a genuine character of kindness and respect. If we come at people instead of to people, we have already defined the construct of how the line of communication is going to be received. It is never healthy for us to have to take our “Spirit” to a place of being combative and argumentative. A conversation of exchanging ideas and feelings where it is done in alignment with our “soul expression”, keeps us out of confusion and discord.
It sets the stage of engagement in a respectful nature where the other person has the opportunity of responding positively and cordially. Who wants to battle? I don’t!! I always remember my mother saying, “kindness goes a lot further than ugliness”! Think about how this approach might be another element of “Freedom”!
So, breathe deeply! Close your eyes and visualize something that brings you back into homeostasis with your soul expression. May today bring you a sense of peace, joy, and moments of feeling loved and validated for who you are and what you are gifting humanity.
Ashé! Have a Blessed Day!
**Note: These recordings are based on my blog writings, and all of this comes through Spirit. The recordings are a reflection of the writings and are not edited because I do not want to alter what is coming to me through “Great Spirit”. I am not seeking perfection, only serving as a vessel to bring love, peace, and joy, to our humanity.
Thank You, Jim Brickman for your beautiful music that vibrates through this recording. This is a selection from his album – “Music to Quiet Your Mind and Sooth Your World”.
Thank You, Nicóle Añgel Evans for sharing your beautiful photography with us to enhance the essence of what is being channeled.
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