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Prophetic Words From the Ancestors- Message #3

This Little Light of Mine,
I’m Gonna Let It Shine!

Wade, wade in the water

Wade, wade in the water, children

Wade, wade in the water

God’s a gonna trouble the water

If you don’t believe I’ve been redeemed,

God’s a gonna trouble the water

Just follow me down to the Jordan’s stream

God’s a gonna trouble the water

I said ah

God’s a gonna trouble the water

Today I hear our ancestors reaching out to us to calm and cleanse the torrential and muddy waters that are in the forefront of our lives. Great Spirit is aware and is engaged in this era of disassembling the old paradigms that condone behavior of people that are consumed with living outside the realm of the divine vibration of love and compassion.  The elements of humanity that have been divisive, ruthless, greedy for power and wealth at the expense of our collective humanity is in a downward spiral of defeat.  We are called to use our discernment in everything we engage in and with everyone we engage with.  We are being called to be intentional and committed in our faith, because these are our tools to “wade through the water and rise above what is transpiring in and on the earthly plane. 

We have to follow the lead of our ancestors that crafted a plan for their escape from slavery into a life of freedom and safety.  We are being asked to carry forward the legacy of “making a way out of our slavery to a system that is not designed to provide us the opportunity or resources to come into the “fullness of who we were created to be”.  This is the time in which we are being called to fortify ourselves, our family members, and the community that holds the resources that sustain our lives.  This means we need to be self-sufficient and self-determined!  We need to invest in our own personal development in all the four domains of what constitutes who we are in the flesh.  That means being stewards of our mind, body, social emotions, and spiritual wellbeing. 

This “call to action” means we have a responsibility to ensure that the needs and development of our family members are on track with their “divine identity and divine life’s purpose”.  As for our communities, we have a responsibility to invest in our communities so that we can use the services and resources within our own community.  This means chartering a council that will in collaboration with the community design a plan of what services and resources are needed so that our money circulates within the community, and we are in a position of taking care of each other and at the same time solidifying the stability and sustainability of our culture and our people.  I think this approach can be applied as a way to build self-esteem, strong families, and vibrant communities across the planet.  How many times did our African American ancestors build a fully functional city or community, only to have it destroyed by those who did not want to see us succeed, and still “they rose from the ashes of their dreams manifested”.  We can and must answer this call and support from our ancestors.  They are in a position where they see where we are and know where we are headed if we don’t change the rules of this game of life, and step into our genius and power.  Their words are our strength and our guidepost to a better future and a better world for our children.

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Sunday Morning Prayers-#9 Being In Our Right Minds in Order to Live of Peace and Purpose-

Why can’t we be as uncomplicated and
of clear sound mind and spirit as children?
They know how to go into their world and shut out the “noise”!

“Great Spirit”,

In these days that seem to be haunting us with so many loud, distracting, and deceptive messages, we need your love and guidance to quiet our mind and ease the confusion that tries to take hold of our peace, clarity, and joy. The joy, “Great Spirit”, that we yearn for, that only being in relationship with your unconditional all encompassing “Love” can offer us.  We need your support to fend off the things and people that are not healthy for our minds, bodies, and spirits.  Grant us thy peace!  Grant us thy grace! Grant us the strength to make decisions in our life that will give us the footing to do what will keep us of sound mind, good health, and a righteous spirit. 

Ashe! Ashe! Ashe!

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Tiny Tips for Moms and Dads # 39 – Everybody Gets Mad, Sad, and Disenchanted, But We Don’t Have to Live in Those Emotions-Just “Push the Magical Reset Button” And Let the Emotions Frizzle Away!

Second generation of knowing how to process and validate their emotions!
These two characters know all about the “Reset Button”!  It has been a tool to help our children process through their emotions.

Children can have a difficult time navigating through their emotions and if I am being truthful, it is part of our human design to be challenged by dealing with our emotions throughout our life’s journey.  What we have to do as parents and caregivers of children, is to support them and guide them through the incidents that pop up and take them off their balance and control.  We want them to learn to be comfortable and in control of the feelings that run through them.  We don’t want them to be fearful and embarrassed about having a melt down or temper tantrum, feeing emotional of sad.  We want to support them with tools that will aid them in processing through their feelings and find a resolve to what might be overwhelming and unbearable for their age and maturity. 

We taught our children that they have the power and ability to reset the situation. We help them to process what they are experiencing by allowing them to have time and space to express themselves.  Sometimes it takes sitting in the feelings till they can verbally express themselves. Sometimes it means holding them in the embrace of your tender arms and whispering words of love to ease their stress. Sometimes it involves finding alternative ways other than verbally communicating, and we might have to come up with more creative ways for them to sort through their feelings.  I like “gentle reprocessing” which entails art, to bring to light what is transpiring so that words don’t get in the way. 

It will take trying different modalities to find out what resonates with each child.  Sometimes a family can come up with a safe way to process feelings and experiences that impact their emotions that are a clue for everyone to know that they need time, space, and support.  For our family we have the children visualize a “reset button” that is part of their belly button.  When we move through the emotions, we suggest pushing their “reset button”, take a deep breath, exhale, and start a new when they are ready.  Their mind, heart, and soul, have to align in harmony in order to be able to feel a sense of relief and resolve.  Trust me when I say, developing a ritual or modality for shifting through and resolving their emotions and feelings is a gift that will support them throughout their life. 

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I’m Just Sayin- #60 Be Vigilant! Be Alert! Be Discerning! Be Not Fooled! Be Proactive! Stand Up! Speak Up! Show Up! Don’t Allow Our Democracy to Slip Through Our Fingers and Become a Kakistocracy!

We are blessed with the most beautiful country that provides a sacred space for the “Great Experiment”- A Life of Democracy!

We are living in a time of what seems to the naked eye to be that of chaos and confusion.  I don’t want to succumb to being disillusioned or hopeless.  We have a great opportunity to forge forward to support our country in realizing the fullness of living in a governmental system steeped and secured in the principles of Democracy.  We cannot allow our Democracy evolve into a Kakistocracy! Our democracy is being threatened by a Kakistocracy.  It is obvious that the current members of our Congress are out of control.  We are being represented by politicians that are demonstrating character, ethics, intelligence, views, and agendas that are contrary to the best interest of the well-being of our country. We have to acknowledge their presence, challenge their agenda, and ethics that are destroying every fiber of the integrity and principles of democracy. 

What is the difference between a Democracy and a Kakistocracy?  Usually, the individuals that represent the people that vote them into office are individuals that support the values, principles, and needs of their constituency. 

It has been a work in progress in this country in an effort to be a democracy, to uphold the values and laws of our Constitution of our country.  The beauty of our Constitution is that it has the potential of evolving as our needs and circumstances in society change and evolve.

 Our expectation and perhaps as we have recently discovered, is that the people that have committed themselves to public service are intelligent and ethical in how they deal in their position in office.  Of course, we are not foolish enough to believe that our politicians are not capable of being unscrupulous and void of integrity.  We do however, want them to uphold the tenants of our democracy.  However, if we our honest, in the last 8-10 years, we have seen the methodical deterioration of our government and thrusting it on the verge of becoming a Kakistocracy. 

What is a Kakistocracy? By definition it is a government by the least suitable or competent citizens of a state. A Kakistocracy is a government run by the worst, least qualified or most unscrupulous citizens. What can I say? I feel that as I navigate through the maze of what is transpiring daily in this country, I am so concerned that the Kakistocracts that are infused into our government, pose a serious danger to our Democracy!  I can’t believe their words, actions, and the untruths they have used as their badge of self-interest and narcissism.  The concept of “WOKE”, is so relevant in this time in our history.  We must all embrace a life where we are awakened to what is transpiring around us and at the same time not allow ourselves to be overwhelmed and paralyzed to the point where we are not able to take action with our vote, our voice, and engagements to make a difference.  We cannot sit back and idly allow our country to be overtaken and imploded by people that are not qualified to represent us.

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Peace, Patience, Prayer- The Sacred Tools.

Peace, Patience and Prayer

Peace, Patience, Prayer will render the manifestation of our dreams, which ultimately lie in God’s blessing for the divinity, purpose and fulfillment of our life’s journey!

Peace that surpasses all understanding because it is difficult to actually articulate what peace is in words.  It is a feeling of perhaps contentment that swells up in our very souls.  It is the something that at times seems to slip through our grasp. It is not a state of being that is constant, but that we must draw unto ourselves to balance the chaos that creeps into our lives unexpectedly. Our daily mantra that keeps us on track is saying out loud and in our quiet moments-“Peace Be Still”!

Patience is perhaps the most challenging element in our journey.  It is life long lessons that we are faced with in so many situations.  We have a tendency to be impatient and struggle to control everything we can in our lives.  It is not realistic to think that we can control what goes on around us. We can only control what is within us. I really believe what they say, “Patience is a virtue”. It is amazing to witness what can transpire in our lives when we are able to be patient and surrender.  When we fight against the grain and struggle to control and manipulate situations and circumstances, we are wasting energetic vibrational power that can serve us better in other aspects of our life.

And then there is the power of prayer.  Prayer, being that conversation with the Creator, of all living. things. The One who knows the totality of who we are and what we are capable of. The One who sees all.  The One who hears all. The One who knows all. Prayer is the authentic engagement between us, and the “Holy Spirit”. It is available and accessible 24/7.  The beautiful thing about prayer is that it is personal and completely individualized. Your prayer is your prayer. It is strictly between you and God.

These are the sacred tools that God has provided for us to utilize, that will enable us to manifest our divine purpose and find fulfillment on our life’s journey.

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Bullying-Why We Must Teach and Model Compassion

Compassion in its purist form. “He’s my little brother and he needs my gentle touch to fall asleep”.

Bullying- Why We Must Teach and Model Compassion

What is essentially the act of compassion or being a person that carries and uses compassion from a heart space?

I looked up the word compassion in the Webster’s Children’s Dictionary and was so disappointed in the choice of words that were used for children to define and understand what the word means. “ Pity for and a desire to help someone”- “ having or showing pity and a desire to help someone”.  Then I looked it up in the regular Webster’s Dictionary and the same word “pity” was used in the definition. The Center for Compassion and Altruism defines compassion as “ A multi-textured response to pain, sorrow and anguish. It includes kindness, empathy, generosity and acceptance. When we teach children that to be compassionate it means to pity, this is the very reason behind the foundation on which bullying is such a devastating and dangerous act in our society today. 

From the word “pity” there is a feeling of superiority and entitlement ingrained in the texture of the word! I would never have used that word in explaining compassion to children! Who do they think these children of this period of civilization are?  They don’t have a clue. We are not nurturing and guiding our children in the “light of spiritual development that they deserve and are looking for. The very examples of what they see in the media, games, movies and adult behavior, that they are bombarded with, does not promote compassion and or empathy.

This Early Childhood period of development is critical in so many areas of development! It is the only time in a child’s educational experience that there is a conscious and intentional decision to provide children with a curriculum that embraces teaching a child what it is to be a whole, healthy, happy socially and an emotionally sound human being!

We must teach compassion, empathy, inclusiveness, acceptance, love and generosity of spirit. We must teach cause and effect! We must teach responsibility for our actions. We must teach remorse for negatively impacting another person thru teaching empathy. We are as parents, teachers, extended family, and friends influencing and imprinting on the soul development of our children! How do we hold a sacred space for them to show up as being compassionate adults in this challenging world? Will they have the tools and character to be contributing members of society? Are we setting them up for failure and pain because we have not done our part to guide them and uphold the integrity of their divine identity? Bullying is taught and modeled.  Children possess an innate ability to respond with love and compassion. It must be protected and nurtured. We have work to do!

Even little animals need our love and compassion. I think the expression on her face demonstrates how compassion impacts our being.

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Let Freedom Ring-

Boricua, Barrilero in Caguas, Puerto Rico-

Independence Day- Day of Independence- A Day to Celebrate Freedom

As many of our American citizens are celebrating the 4th of July today, I had to re-evaluate my feelings and understanding of how I as an African American woman born to an African American father from the South, and a Jamaican mother of mixed ethnicity, fit into the fabric of the American culture celebrating the Independence from Great Britain. A battle fought by Americans and slaves alike. Promises made, and promises broken.  But the thing that comes to my mind and heart, this is a day that has significance in another way. For me I understand the need for independence and freedom. 

I have the independence to make my own life’s decisions and to know that I have the freedom to set the course of my destiny without fear of being judged or restricted. How magnificent and precious are the gifts of independence and freedom.  We take it for granted as we go about our daily lives.  In so many corners of the world, people have never experiences this gift of freedom. If ever there was a time in this country to uphold our independence, it is now! It is time to re-evaluate what we all have an investment in.  Our freedom is to be honored and respected.  This country is the “Great Experiment in the Democratic System of Government”.

We cannot allow the partisan politics that are erupting in our government to destroy the fundamentals of our country that’s intentions is to govern for the people and by the people.  I acknowledge that I am blessed this day that celebrates “Independence” and I pray that people around the world might be afforded the same gift of freedom that rings in my heart and resides in the depth of my soul.

God Bless the America for what it can be, a place of freedom, inclusion, justice, acceptance, and dignity for all that are inheriting this land, shall they be free!  May who and what we are to become as our democracy is manifested, be a light for the world to hold the truth’s, that all mankind is equal and worthy of this freedom to be independent and free. I hear the “Beat of a Different Drummer”.

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There is a Better Way to Live and Let Live-

The beauty that has been bestowed upon us in this planet is worth sacrificing the “Me, Myself and I” life style for the good of the collective “WE”.

There is A Better Way to Live and Let Live!


End the violence, greed, and judgment!


First of all God the Father three in one is not coming back again because He never left. The flesh was sacrificed but the Spirit of God resides within each of us that know He is the Alpha and Omega. God speaks to us as individuals, families, communities of faith, and in cultural context that meets our needs as a global society.

God is still speaking and His truth and words to us go beyond the Bible, Koran etc. Don’t get stuck at the foundations of the different religious ideologies and theologies.

It is time to be in our quiet sacred spaces and listen to His words that are calling us to love, respect, honor and care for one another! He is clear!

Feed the hungry!  -(physically, spiritually and emotionally)

Clothe the naked!

Educate everyone in our global society!

House the homeless!

Realize that the world belongs to each of us regardless of race, ethnicity, citizenship, wealth, illusions of power and physical or mental capacity. In reality not in the altered state of illusions, we are all equal. One race –the human race.

Provide employment and support each other in living sustainable lives that nurture self worth so that crime and violence are not viable answers to broken lives and tormented souls because people know they are loved and accepted unconditionally and without judgment!
End the violence and substance abuse. We are not living our lives in our divinity that was our birthright!
Compassion, Unconditional Love, Respect, Acceptance, Ethics, Grace and Mercy are the principles we must embrace and put into action in our daily lives.
God instills in us innate intuitive knowledge and wisdom of right from wrong to live by, that covers everything we need to sustain our humanity and live in peace and joy! The answers lie within our individual souls and our collective humanity if we so choose to live those essential elements. 

My stream of consciousness is evolving from this space of “wanting” change to another space that I feel emerging, but I don’t know what that is until “Spirit” speaks! I’m listening for the still quiet voice that resides in my soul!

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He’s Got the Whole World In His Hands-

He’s Got the Whole World in His Hands

I had to make this connection to my souls journey today as I see what is going on in the world! As I watch people live in their pain bodies, I realize how fragile and unconnected we are with one another! I realize how the journey for my people has not changed since the days of slavery. The strength and fortitude of our forefathers and foremothers, has poured elements into our souls that have given us the ability to stay the course to freedom and equality! There is the saying “ How long dear God, how long?” We are still enslaved to the terror of racism, economic inequality, mis-education, the criminal system and self-hatred because if no one thinks us to be worthy of love, how can we then see ourselves as being lovable?

When I sit and listen to these voices of my ancestors, I know who I am! I know who I belong to! I know what I am capable of! I know I am love, grace, beauty and intelligence! I see the God within my soul and I can see the God within the souls of our collective humanity, even when others cannot see it in themselves or in others! It might be asleep or dormant, but it can be awaken! We as a people of the human race were given everything our souls needed from before our earthly arrival! The question now is, how do we awaken from our slumber and what can we do for others to awaken them to their divine soul expressions! How do we nurture, guide, and protect the beauty of a child’s soul so that it never falls asleep?  If you have answers to these questions that are rising from my heart, please share!!!

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Allowing-

Allowing:

Children know how to “Allow” life to flow and how to let go!

Just a thought about -“Allowing”.


Bottom line is to practice the principles of “allowing” and non-resistance (this does not mean we don’t stand up, show up and speak out) because by the time they figure out that no one cares or is intimidated by their “out of control egomania” time has released Karma and “this situation too shall pass”!! This status of allowing gives God the space to intercede and take control.


Right now the entire world affairs, systems, institutions, governments, people in control (over foolishness) as well as those human beings that are asleep in their lives, are out of alignment with God’s divine right order. It has to play itself out. But be not afraid, disillusioned, or dishearten, “God is ultimately in control and like ever good parent He just let’s us have full expression of our free will and determination and then out of no where with His guidance and support the people that are awake and know what is “true, real, just, step up and bring in the light that illuminates the world with God’s grace, mercy, and expectations for a better world life experience for all! Humanity is re-birthed and rises up!

Remember “allowing”, does not mean we sit down and not participate and engage in our families, communities and in ways that we can show love, interest, compassion and responsiveness where it is needed.  Allowing does mean that we don’t have to sit in a state of fear and be paralyzed in living our life completely.

We have to:
Stay awake
Stay in integrity
Speak our truth
Show compassion
Live peace
Carry joy
Demonstrate love, patience and understanding
Stay faithful