Kusasa abahlobo bam,
Kulungile akuyomfuneko ukutsho ukuba le yayiyiveki eneziganeko kwihlabathi lethu lehlabathi. Izinto ezintle zenzeka, kwaye kwangaxeshanye kwenzeka izinto ezifuna ukuqwalaselwa sonke njengabemi behlabathi. Ndiyakholwa ukuba “intsebenziswano iqala ekhaya kwaye ngaphambi kokuba ndicebise kwaye ndithethelele kwamanye amazwe imicimbi, kufuneka ndifumane indlela yokusebenzisa iitalente zam kunye nezipho ukuthatha inxaxheba ekusombululeni iimeko ezithwaxa ilizwe lam. Kwangaxeshanye, ndivakalelwa kwaye ndiyayiqonda into yokuba singabantu behlabathi jikelele abaxhomekeke omnye komnye ngokubhekiselele ekuzinzeni kweplanethi yethu kunye noluntu. Konke oko kuthethwa, kwangaxeshanye, kubalulekile ukuba senze “ukuzinyamekela”.
Thina ngokwemvelo yethu kanye njengabafazi, abakhulisi kunye nabakhuseli. Kum kubonakala ngathi kwabaninzi bethu, sinyathela kwimeko yokuziva sinetyala ukuba sizifica ngokuthabatha ixesha lokuzenzela izinto. Kwabanye bethu lixesha “lokubetha nokuphosa” ukuba sikhuphe ixesha lokuzi-pamper kwaye sisebenzise isingxengxezo sokuba kufuneka senze oku okanye ukuba ngenxa yokuba sinembopheleleko yentlalo kwaye okubi ngakumbi, siqala ukuthatha thina kuba sinomcimbi wezempilo. Xa sizivumela ukuba sisebenze ngexesha elithi “hit and miss”, okanye “Kufuneka ndizenzele le nto kuba…”, asizenzeli nceba kuphela, sibonisa abanye ukuba asibathandi kwaye sizihloniphe. Plus, ukuba asizinyamekeli, asiyi kuba ne-wherewithal yokuxhasa ubomi babo sibathandayo kwaye sibahlonela ngokuguquguqukayo.
Yintoni isiseko sokukwazi ukuzinyamekela kule siphithiphithi, ibheke phezulu, ngaphakathi ngaphandle, ihlabathi ngamnye wethu ahamba ngalo kukuba kuqala achaze ukuba yintoni esizisa kwimeko “yoXolo”. Xa sibona uxolo lwethu size silubeke phambili kwimbonakaliso yethu yomphefumlo, sixhaswa ekulondolozeni ngaphandle kokugweba okanye ukuziva sinetyala. Xa sihamba ebomini “ngoXolo”, sinika abanye umnqweno wokufumana uxolo lwabo lobuqu. Xa sibambe loo mvakalelo yoxolo kwimbonakaliso yethu yomphefumlo, oko kwenzekayo kuthi okanye okusingqongileyo kunokusingathwa ngendlela enempilo ye-wholistic ezisa ukuzimisela kunye nesiseko. Uxolo lunokuba yi-antidot ethomalalisa ixhala lethu kunye nokungakwazi ukutsala umva kunye nokuqwalasela ngaphambi kokusabela kwiimeko. Fumana uxolo lwakho abahlobo bam! Ufanelwe luxolo namathuba “okuzinyamekela”. Yiba seluxolweni lwakho bahlobo bam kwaye uqaphele indlela izinto ezibukeka kwaye zivakalelwa ngayo ngokwahlukileyo xa ufika kwihlabathi “Amandla oXolo lwakho”!
Ashe! Ashe!
