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The View From Their Window.

The View From Their “Window”.

Life’s journey, from a child’s perspective is their truth.

We learn as mothers and fathers that we must realize that no matter what we do in parenting, our children’s perspective, comprehension and interpretation of their early life and unfortunately some times adult experiences, are dealt with from a child’s maturity emotionally and spiritually, and therefore is be can limited and restrictive.  It can hamper their ability to evolve and grow into the completeness of their divinity. We don’t want them living life in their pain bodies because it is all they see through the “window” from which they live and experience the nuances of their life. It does not serve them well. They have to know they have our support in helping them to do the “work” to be free.  

They are worthy of truly loving themselves because from God’s perspective they are whole and complete.  We must continue to pray and work for this enlightenment and transformation that can support the quality of our children’s lives. We must always be mindful of what our children are exposed to and if they ask puzzling questions we must be their to help them process.  In a collaborative relationship we work with our children to provide tools by which they can utilize to effectively deal with and overcome any obstacles that might hinder their ability to be whole, healthy and happy human beings. There is no one set of tools that are appropriate for all children.  It takes parents really knowing the essence of who their child is to discern what tools they can offer their child. It’s not about “coping skills”, it’s about helping children know themselves to the point that they can navigate life with a new lens when they look through the “View from their window”.