Kuthatha ntoni yaye umele ube ngubani ukuze ukhonze abantwana njengomfundisi wabo?
Isithako:
Kufuneka ucace- oku kukuphila ubomi obonwabisayo, obupheleleyo, obusempilweni emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Andikwazi ukuqalisa ukukuxelela indlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuba sempilweni emzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo nangokomoya. Enye yezinto zokuqala endizixelela ootitshala bam abafundi kwikhosi yabo yokuqala yoPhuhliso lwaBantwana kukuba kufuneka benze uphando malunga nokuba baphi kule mimandla emi-3 yobomi babo, ngaphambi kokuba bazibophelele ekubeni ngutitshala. Ayisiyiyo ixesha elinye lokuhlola! Sisithethe esiqhubekayo ekufuneka senjenjalo thina njengootitshala nabazali ukuze sibe nolwalamano lothando nolusebenzayo nabantwana esikhonzayo okanye abakhulisa abantwana. Ukuba sinetyala kubo nakuthi ukuphila ubomi obuhambelana nobomi bethu obuhle kunye nokubonakaliswa okuphezulu kwe-“Divine Identity” yethu ekhethekileyo.
Xa siphumile kwiintlobo kwaye singaziva kakuhle, luxanduva lwethu njengootitshala ukuthatha usuku lwempilo yengqondo kwaye siphinde sijolise iimvakalelo zethu kunye nentlalo-ntle yokomoya ukuze siphinde singene kwimeko-bume kwimbonakaliso enempilo ezinzileyo ngakumbi. Ndandisazi ukuba ndineentsuku ezili-10 zokugula ngokupheleleyo ngonyaka kwaye ndazibophelela ekuthatheni usuku olunye ngenyanga rhoqo ngonyaka ukuze nje “Ndizinyamekele”. Ndandinenjongo yokwenza into ekhethekileyo eyandinika ithuba nje “lokuphefumla”! Ndandivuka ndihambahamba elunxwemeni okanye ndizikhuphe kwisidlo sakusasa. Ngamanye amaxesha ndandihlala nje ebhedini kwaye ndibukele imiboniso engazange ithathe nayiphi na inkqubo yam yokucinga esebenzayo. Sonke sifuna “Ixesha Ngaphakathi”! Sonke kufuneka siqonde ukuba ukulungelelanisa nokulungelelanisa izinto eziphembelela ubukho bethu kufuneka kunyanyekelwe kwaye kukhuliswe.
Le asiyonto ekufuneka siyicele imvume yokwenza okanye ekufuneka sicele uxolo ngayo, yinto efunekayo kuthi ukuze siphile ubomi obonwabisayo nobusempilweni. Xa siza ebantwaneni, kufuneka siphelele, sibe sempilweni kwaye sonwabe. Ngoku ngokubhekiselele kulonwabo, anditsho ukuba abantwana balindele ukuba sibe kwimeko esisigxina ye-static yokuba yonke imihla. Kufuneka basibone njenge-selves yethu eyinyani ukuze bazi ukuba siya kunika isithuba sokuba bavakalise ngokupheleleyo ukuba ngoobani kwaye loo mbonakaliso “yesazisi sobuthixo” yabo iyahlonitshwa kwaye yamkelwe. Into kukuba njengabantu abadala bekufanele ukuba sikhule ekukwazini kwethu ukuqaphela ukuba siphuma njani kubo, kwaye ngaloo ndlela yokuvakalelwa senza oko kufuneka sikwenze ukuze “Sizihlole”.
Inzuzo kubantwana xa sikwazi ukuzilungelelanisa, kukuba ibenza bazive bekhuselekile, bekhuselekile, kwaye benyanyekelwa. Enye into endiyabelana ngayo nootitshala bam abafundi kukuba kubaluleke ngokwenene ukuba bahlole kunye nomntwana wabo wangaphakathi, kuba oko kubamba “inyaniso yokuba ngoobani kwaye yintoni abakwaziyo” ukuba yiyo. Esinjani sona isipho ukuba yinkonzo ebantwaneni kuba sifumana ukufumanisa ngakumbi nangakumbi ngathi yonke imihla esabelana nabo.
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