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Simele sibe nokuqonda nomonde wokuvumela ngamnye wethu ukuba akubonakalisa ngokupheleleyo  ubuthixo bethu njengabantu abakhethekileyo nabakhethekileyo. 

Yile nto kufuneka siyenze kulo lonke uhambo lomntu ebomini.

“Umoya Omkhulu” othandekayo,

Ndithandazela ukuba sikwazi ukubamba indawo engcwele omnye komnye ukuvumela omnye komnye ukuba abonakalisa ngokupheleleyo ukuba ngoobani kwihlabathi nakwi-the.  Ndithandazela ukuba sibe namandla okubona abantu ukuba ngoobani kwaye ngokubamba indawo engcwele kubo, kuya kubavumela ukuba babe yinyaniso kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi babo.  Oku kubandakanya ukujongana nomkhwa wokugqithisa isigwebo kunye nokuphendula kwabanye abantu ngesimo sengqondo “esele senze isigqibo sam” esivala unxibelelwano kunye nethuba lokuxhasa umntu ofuna impembelelo yethu ebomini babo.  Asifuni ukuba yinxalenye yokudiliza ukuzithemba komnye umntu okanye sibenze bazive “ngaphantsi” ukuze bawele kwisithuba sokungakhathali okanye ukoyiswa. 

Ukukhanya kwethu kufuneka kusetyenziselwe ukukhanyisa intsingiselo ye-positivity kunye namathuba obomi babo. Yimpembelelo yokuphindaphinda ukuba ngandlela-thile ibuyiselwe kuthi ngohlobo.  Iyamangalisa “uMoya Omkhulu”, indlela esiguquka ngayo ngokomoya xa sinokoyisa umnqweno kunye nomkhwa wokuzibandakanya nabantu ngokwembono yethu yokuba ngubani esivakalelwa kukuba bafanele babe nguye.  Sinokuba ngabantu abaninzi kuphela xa sivumela nabanye ukuba benze okufanayo.  Inyaniso kukuba sonke “sinesazisi sobuthixo” kwaye intsingiselo yethu yomphefumlo ibonisa oko sidibana nabo kumava ethu obomi.  Asilawuli isivumelwano sobomi bomnye umntu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo asizange sidale iphakheji yoyilo lwe “Divinity” yabo.  Kufuneka siqonde ukuba sonke siphantsi kwesivumelwano sokuhamba la mava obomi ngokusebenzisa izipho eziye zanikwa thina. Kuxhomekeke kumntu ngamnye wethu ukusebenzela ukukwazi “ukwenza ubomi bethu, ubomi esibaziyo ukuba “uMoya Omkhulu”, uye wacinga, wayila, wasidala kwaye wasi-divined.  SILAPHA ukuze sixhasane ngeendlela ezibonakalayo eziya kusoloko zisiqinisekisa ukuba bayathandwa kwaye bayahlonitshwa. 

Umthandazo wethu weMantra namhlanje: Ukuvumela

Ndiza kuhlala kwindawo engcwele eya kundivumela ukuba ndibe ngumntu wam oyinyaniso kwaye ndibambe indawo yokuba abanye benze okufanayo.

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