Singalithatha ilizwi lookhokho bethu “njengamazwi enyaniso yendalo iphela”! Kutheni usitsho, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo banombono wethu ukusuka kwindawo yokomoya engathintelwanga ngobuxoki, ukukhohlisa, ukukhohlisa, kunye nokuphazamiseka okufihla umbono wethu ekuqondeni amaxesha amaninzi iinyaniso ezifihlakeleyo eziziswa kuthi ngabathunywa “boMoya omkhulu”-iingelosi. Ndiyazi ukuba ookhokho bethu bakunye nathi ukuxhasa ubomi bethu kunye nokwabelana ngezinto abaye bahlangabezana nazo ebomini babo, ngexesha labo lohambo lobomi babo kwaye bafuna ukuba sizuze kulwazi kunye nobulumko abaye basikelelwa ukuba bawufumane.
Amaxesha amaninzi, thina kule nkcubeko siyakugxotha ukubaluleka kunye nokubaluleka komnombo wethu kunye nonxibelelwano kunye nabadala bethu kunye nookhokho bethu. Asihambelani nomnqweno wokungcangcazela wobomi babo kuba sixakeke kakhulu kukuphazamiseka kunye nokuzingca kwento eyenza eli hlabathi libe ne-tic, ukuba asihambelani nje nento ekhoyo ngokwenene ukuba sibe ngabadali benyani yethu kunye nobomi bobuthixo.
Ndandisoloko nditsaleleka kubadala! Kwakubonakala ngathi ngalo lonke ixesha ndifumana ithuba lokuhlala phantsi ndize ndithethe nabantu abadala, ndandilisebenzisa ngokupheleleyo. Ndingathanda ukuya endlwini kaNana wam ukuze ndilale okanye ndihlale kwaye ndibe “nexesha leti” kunye naye. Ndiza kuhlala ecaleni kweengxoxo zika-anti wam kwaye ndifumane indlebe egcwele zonke iintlobo zolwazi ezikwazisa kwaye zixhasa amaxabiso am kunye nemigaqo! Kwakungekho nto ingaqhelekanga ukundifumana ekhitshini emva kwecawa kunye namanenekazi akhonza i-repass kwaye ebabuza imibuzo okanye ukuphulaphula nje iincoko zabo.
Ndandikuthanda ukuhlala ngasemva kwecawa ndize ndiphulaphule abantu abadala ababandakanyeka kwiintlanganiso zabo malunga nemicimbi yecawa. Ngamanye amaxesha ndandingakwazi ukuzibamba xa ndinembono ecacileyo malunga noko kwakuxoxwa ngako, kwaye mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba babesazi intando yam eyomeleleyo kunye nengqondo yam yokufuna, babedla ngokundivumela ukuba ndithethe isiqwenga sam. Bonke aba badala kunye nookhokho bam abathandekayo baye baba ngundoqo ekuphuhlisweni kwengqondo yam kunye nokuvela komphefumlo wam.
Kula maxesha, ndivakalelwa kukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sifikelele kookhokho bethu kwaye sibazise ukuba sifuna ukusebenzisana kwabo ebomini bethu. Kubalulekile ukuba sabelane ngokubaluleka komnombo wethu nabantwana bethu kwaye sibafundise ukuba nabo banokufikelela kubo. Yisiseko sokwenyani somphefumlo womntu ukwazi ukuba awuwedwa kwaye kuhlala kukho iiarhente, i-massagers kunye nookhokho bakho abasebenza ekuziphatheni “koMoya omkhulu”!
PS: Andikholelwa ukuba ndabelana ngamaqhekeza kunye neziqwenga zohambo lobomi bam kuluntu lwethu, kodwa mhlawumbi iya kukhuthaza abanye phaya emhlabeni ukuba benze okufanayo. Ukwakha unxibelelwano kunye nokuvuma unxibelelwano esinalo omnye komnye kubalulekile kuphuhliso lomphefumlo wethu kunye nophuhliso.
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