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16 Inene, ukulunga nenceba ziya kundilandela yonke imihla yobomi bam.

Kwabaninzi bethu sinesithethe esenziwa ngeenkcubeko zethu kunye neenkcubeko, izithethe zokusikelela ubomi obutsha bomntwana.  Ndihlala ndibona oku njengendlela yosapho kunye noluntu lokholo, okanye uluntu lobuhlanga, ukuthatha uxanduva lokungamkeli nje umphefumlo omtsha, kodwa ukuthatha ingqiqo esebenzayo yoxanduva lokukhokela, ukukhusela, kunye nokukhulisa loo mphefumlo ukusuka ekuzalweni ukuya kutshintsho lwabo oluya kummandla wasezulwini.  Yiyo yonke imihla yamava omphefumlo wasemhlabeni.  Ndihlala ndifumana imvakalelo yokukhululeka kunye nokhuseleko “emoyeni” wam xa ndiyazi ukuba esi sithethe sokusikelela usana senzeke ebomini bomntwana. 

Ikwayindlela yokubulela “uMoya omkhulu” okanye into ehambelana neenkolelo zentsapho, ngesipho sobomi bomntwana.  Ukubulela ngentsikelelo yobomi kubaluleke kakhulu kulwalamano lwethu nomntwana.  Oku kubeka inqanaba lobudlelwane bomntwana kunye nokuzithemba kwakhe, okubonakaliswa kwintlonipho yakhe. Iphupha lethu komnye nomnye kufuneka libe kukuba wonke umntu aphile ubomi obusikelelweyo bokulunga, inceba, imfesane, uthando kunye noxolo.  Ezi ntsikelelo ziyinxalenye yelungelo lethu lokuzalwa.  Ukuhamba ebomini uziva ngeendlela ezininzi kunye namaxesha osikelelwe sisipho. 

Xa singabantwana sithembekile nje, singazi nokuba kutheni okanye kuthetha ukuthini, sisebenza phantsi kokhuseleko lweentsikelelo ezigubungela ubomi bethu.  Ndiyakholelwa ukuba xa abazali, amalungu osapho, kunye noluntu olusondeleyo olunxibelelana nomntwana, luchonga iintsikelelo ebomini babo, kwaye lubonisa indlela ezo ntsikelelo ezichaphazela ngayo ubomi babo, sizalisekisa uxanduva lwethu kubo. 

Bala iintsikelelo zakho, uzibize nganye nganye. Bala iintsikelelo zakho kwaye ubone oko ‘uMoya Omkhulu’ owenzileyo.  Bala iintsikelelo zakho, uzibize nganye nganye. Bala iintsikelelo zakho ezininzi, ubone indlela obusikelelwe ngayo ubomi bakho. ”