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Yintoni efunekayo kwaye kufuneka ube ngubani ukuze ukhonze abantwana njengomfundisi wabo?

Kufuneka ungagwebi ngaphandle koko uvale umnyango wencoko kunye nonxibelelwano.

Kwimeko yethu yobuntu kunzima kakhulu ukuphepha ukugweba kunye nokukhetha kwingqondo yethu yokuqonda kunye nokungazi.  Asikwazi ukudala kwaye sigcine ubudlelwane nabantwana ukuba sivumela ukukhetha, ukucinga kwangaphambili, ukuphulaphula amazwi, kwaye senze ingqondo yethu ukucinezela kwaye sitshabalalise amandla ethu okunxibelelana ngempumelelo nabantwana esibakhonzayo.  Ukuba abantwana bavakalelwa kukuba uvaliwe kwaye asibaphulaphuli ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye banokuthembela kuwe ukuba uvulekile, ufikelele, kwaye uphendule ngokufanelekileyo kubo, baya kuvala. 

Xa abantwana befumana umntu omdala onokungcangcazela kwesigwebo esingabandakanyi iimvakalelo zabo kunye neenkxalabo, bayaxhathisa ukuzithemba kubo kwaye njengotitshala, uphulukana nolwalamano olubaluleke kakhulu noluhle, ngaphandle kwethuba lokukwazi ukufundisa nokucebisa loo mntwana.  Unxibelelwano oluhloniphekileyo nolunovakalelo lwakha ukuthembana kunye nejelo lonxibelelwano ngeendlela ezimbini.  Sinetyala kubantwana esibakhonza kumagumbi ethu okufundela ukuba sibonise ingqibelelo nemfesane kubudlelwane bethu nabo.  Sifundisa indlela yokuziphatha kunye nendlela ekubaluleke ngayo ukuthembeka kunye nobulungisa kulwalamano lwethu nabanye. 

 Bayaqaphela kwaye banomdla kwinto eyenzekayo kwindawo yabo kunye nokunxibelelana kwethu nabo.  Babona yonke into eyenzekayo eklasini.  Ukuva yonke into ethethwa eklasini.  Baziva ukungcangcazela okugubungela umoya weklasi.  Kufuneka ube ngokwenyani kunye nabantwana kuba bayazi ngokucacileyo ukuba uyinyani okanye akunjalo.  Unxibelelwano nabantwana eklasini yakho sisiseko sobudlelwane bakho nabo kwaye yindlela ebalulekileyo yokufundisa.  Ukuba kukho umsantsa kwisakhono sakho sokunxibelelana kunye nokunxibelelana nabantwana ngenxa yotyekelo lokuwela kumgibe wokuvumela ukukhetha, kunye nokungakwazi ukungagwebi, le yindawo ebalulekileyo yophuhliso lomlinganiswa wakho ukuseta injongo yokusebenza.  Abantwana bafanelwe okona kulungileyo ukuba ungubani kwaye unako ukuba ngubani.