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Tiro ya me jaaka ngwana wa me mo lefatsheng

Spirit Guide”!

Kgaolo ya 2

Bana ke mpho e kgolo go di gaisa tsotlhe tse batho ba di neilweng.

Gompieno ke tlile go abelana karolo ya Kgaolo 2 ya buka ya me – “Embracing the Gift of Parenthood: How to Create a Loving Relationship with Your Children”.

Available: Amazon and Barnes and Noble as well as Xlibris.

Eno ke kgaogelo fela ya kgaolo e e latelang!

Kgaolo ya Bobedi

Spirit Guide- A Parents Prayer-

“Botlhale le bontle jwa se o leng sone se bonesa dikgoro tsa botho jwa rona.  E kete ka metlha ke tla nna lesedi le le isang kwa kgorong ya pelo ya gago.”

Ke a lemoga

I understand this means I have the responsibility to be your lifetime earthly ‘Spirit Guide’.

Quote: 

Mme Anne Morris says:

“Selo se se gakgamatsang sa boineelo ke gore se golola thata – mo tirong, mo motshamekong le mo loratong.” (This is part of a quote from “The Way I See It #76”, Starbucks Coffee)

Kahil Gibran o kile a re:

“Ga se bana ba gago;  Ke bomorwa le bomorwadia botshelo jo bo tlhologeletsweng.”

Potso:

Ke eng se se dirisiwang ke lefoko ‘kaelo ya moya’?

      Ke tlhaloganya sentle gore jaaka batsadi re “baeteledipele ba mowa” mo baneng ba rona.  Lefoko ‘kaelo ya moya’ le kaya eng?  Fela jaaka bafilosofi le baitsesaense ba le bantsi pele ga me, ke lemoga gore kwa bofelong bana ba rona ga se ba rona, mme ke ba bone le lobopo lo ba tlileng go direlwa mo go lone le go bo direla.  Ga re kgone go tlhokomela bana ba rona.  Ga re ka ke ra gatelela se re akanyang gore ke semelo sa bone kgotsa bokamoso jwa bone.  Re simolola kamano eno le bone fa ba ntse ba le mo sebopelong.  Mo nakong eno, re simolola go tlhaloganya dingwe tsa semelo sa bone.  Go botlhokwa gore o buisane thata le bone. 

       Ke gakologelwa fa ke ne ke tshotse morwadiake mme ka simolola go tlhaloganya gore ke eng se a se ratang le se se sa mo itumediseng.  O ne a le matlhagatlhaga thata mo mmeleng, segolobogolo bosigo, mme ka nako e le nngwe go ne go lebega e kete o na le maatla a a sa feleng.  O ne a ikutlwa e kete o ne a le mo lefelong la go ikatisa mme a tlhoka go ikatisa.  She was always tumbling and turning summersaults.   I had to rub my tummy and sing gently to calm her down. Fa ke ne ke le moimana, ke ne ke ruta kindergarten mme Niki, ngwana wa me yo o mo popelong o ne a leka go nna le seabe mo ditirong tsotlhe.  O ne a tsibogela ditiro tsa bana le mantswe a bone.  Bana ba sekolo le bone ba ne ba rata go bua le ene.  Ke ne ke itse gore ngwana yono o tla nna matlhagatlhaga thata mo mmeleng, a na le botsalano jo bo tseneletseng, a akanya thata e bile a amana thata le tlholego. 

        Dingwaga di le 28 moragonyana, ke bone Niki e le motshameki wa maemo a a kwa godimo, motlhagisi yo mogolo, sebui sa phatlalatsa, mmoki, mokwadi wa sekirini, le moarabedi wa ntlha mo tirelong ya batho, mme o na le tlotlo e e tseneletseng ya kamano magareng ga “Moya o Mogolo” le bogolo jwa tlholego.  O tseneletse thata mo go ikopanyeng le ngwao ya gagwe mme o e tlotla ka go bina le meropa.  Tota le fa a ne a sa le monnye o ne a ya kwa morago ga ntlo ya rona mme fa bana ba bangwe ba ne ba tshameka ka dipopi, Niki o ne a epa dilo tsa bogologolo kgotsa a aga ditempele tse dinnye go tlotlomatsa “Moya o Mogolo” le losika lwa gagwe lwa Ba-Navajo.  Ke ne ke sa tlhaloganye se a neng a se dira, mme ke ne ke itse gore e ne e le maitemogelo a a tseneletseng a a neng a le botlhokwa le a a boitshepo mo go ene. 

Ke akanya gore re na le boikarabelo jwa go tlhokomela bana ba rona, go ba reetsa le go bua le bone, e seng go bua le bone.  Mokgwa wa tlhaeletsano o o amogelang le o o tlhalosang o re o tlhabololang le bana ba rona o tla dira pharologano yotlhe mo lefatsheng mo go se re nang le sone jaaka motheo wa go aga botsalano jo bo dirang le bana ba rona.  Lefatshe le tla tsenelela mme le leke go tsaya kgato ka bonako jo bo kgonegang.  Fa re batla go nna “baeteledipele ba mowa mo baneng ba rona, re tshwanetse go dira ka natla le ka boineelo jo bogolo go sireletsa bongwana jwa bone.”  Re ne ra nna le seabe se segolo mo bonyaneng jwa rona.  Bosha bo tla latela jaaka setsokotsane kgotsa setsokotsane.  Fa re ka itshokela botsalano jwa rona le bone, re tla falola  sefefo mme ba tla  fenya. 

Eno ke kgaolo e e botlhokwa thata mo bukeng eno mo e leng gore ke tla tshwanelwa ke go e abelana le lona go le gontsi mo isagweng.  Ke solofela gore o tla akanya ka go reka buka eno gore re kgone go nna le seabe mo dipuisanong mme gongwe jaaka setlhopha sa batsadi le batlhokomedi ba bana re ka kgona go thusana le go tlhokomela bana ba rona.