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Umhlahlandlela Womoya”!

Isahluko 2

Izingane ziyisipho esikhulu kunazo zonke esintwini.

Namuhla ngizokwabelana ngesiqephu seSahluko 2 sencwadi yami- “Ukwamukela Isipho Sokuba Ngumzali: Indlela Yokwakha Ubudlelwano Obunothando Nezingane Zakho”.

Iyatholakala: I-Amazon neBarnes neNoble kanye neXlibris.

Lokhu kumane nje kungukunambitheka kwesahluko!

Isahluko sesibili

Umhlahlandlela Womoya- Umthandazo Wabazali-

“Ubuhlakani nobuhle bokuthi ungubani ukhanyisa amasango esintwini sethu.  Kwangathi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngibe ukukhanya okuqondisayo esangweni lenhliziyo yakho. “

Ngiyabona

Ngiyabona ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthi nginomthwalo wemfanelo wokuba ‘ngumqondisi woMoya’ wakho wempilo yonke.

Quote: 

U-Anne Morriss wake wathi:

“Okuhlekisayo ukuzibophezela ukuthi kukhulula ngokujulile – emsebenzini, ekudlaleni, naseluthandweni.” (Lokhu kuyingxenye yengcaphuno evela ku- “The Way I See It # 76”, Starbucks Coffee)

Kahil Gibran wake wathi:

“Izingane zakho akuzona izingane zakho.  Bangamadodana namadodakazi okulangazelela ukuphila. “

Umbuzo:

Kusho ukuthini igama elithi “umhlahlandlela womoya”?

      Nginokuqonda okunembile ukuthi njengabazali “singabantu abaqondisi bomoya” ezinganeni zethu.  Lisho ukuthini igama elithi “umhlahlandlela womoya”?  Yebo, njengamafilosofi amaningi kanye ne-theorists ngaphambi kwami, ngiyabona ukuthi ekugcineni izingane zethu akuzona ezethu, kodwa ngokwazo kanye nendawo yonke abaye bakhonza kuyo futhi bayakhonze.  Ngeke sikwazi ukuthatha ubunikazi bezingane zethu.  Asikwazi ukuphoqa lokho esikuzwa ukuthi kungubunikazi babo noma ikusasa labo.  Siqala ubudlelwano nabo ngenkathi behlala esibelethweni.  Kulesi sikhathi siqala ukuqonda ezinye zezinto eziphilayo.  Kubalulekile ukuxhumana kakhulu nabo. 

       Ngiyakhumbula lapho ngithwele indodakazi yami futhi ngaqala ukuqonda ukuthi yini ayithandayo nokuthi yini engahlali kahle kuye.  Wayezikhandla kakhulu ngokomzimba ikakhulukazi ebusuku, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye kwakubonakala sengathi wayenamandla angenamkhawulo.  Wayehlala ecabanga ukuthi usezimini futhi udinga ukuzivocavoca.  Wayehlala ewa futhi ephenduka ama-summersaults.   Kwadingeka ngihlikihle isisu sami futhi ngicule ngobumnene ukuze ngimthulise. Ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe, ngangifundisa enkulisa futhi uNiki, ingane yami esibelethweni, wazama ukubamba iqhaza kuyo yonke imisebenzi.  Wayesabela ngezenzo zezingane kanye namazwi abo.  Izingane ekilasini nazo zazithanda ukukhuluma naye.  Ngangazi ukuthi le ngane izoba ngumsebenzi osebenzayo ngokomzimba, inhlalo kakhulu, icabangisiwe kakhulu, futhi ixhumene ngokujulile ngokomoya nemvelo. 

        Eminyakeni engama-28 kamuva, ngibone uNiki njengomsubathi ophezulu, umxhumanisi omkhulu, isikhulumi somphakathi, imbongi, umbhali wesikrini, kanye nomphenduli wokuqala enkonzweni yesintu, futhi uphethe inhlonipho ejulile ngobudlelwano phakathi kwe- “Great Spirit” nobukhosi bemvelo.  Ugxile ngokujulile ekukhombeni ifa lakhe futhi uzwakalisa inhlonipho kuyo ngokudansa nokushaya isigubhu.  Ngisho nasemncane wayephuma aye egcekeni lethu elingemuva futhi ngenkathi ezinye izingane zidlala ngonodoli, uNiki wayemba izinto zakudala noma akhe amathempeli amancane ukuhlonipha “uMoya Omkhulu” nozalo lwakhe lwamaNavajo.  Angizange ngiqonde ukuthi wenzani, kodwa ngangazi ukuthi lokhu kwakuyisipiliyoni esijulile somuntu siqu esasibalulekile futhi singcwele kuye. 

Nginomuzwa wokuthi sinomthwalo wemfanelo wokubuka izingane zethu, ukuzilalela, nokukhuluma nazo, hhayi kuzo.  Ifomethi yokuxhumana eyamukelayo nechazayo esiyithuthukisa nezingane zethu izokwenza wonke umehluko emhlabeni kulokho esinakho njengesisekelo sokwakha ubudlelwano obusebenzayo, ngokungafani nokungasebenzi kahle, nezingane zethu.  Izwe lizongena futhi lizame ukuthatha isikhundla ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.  Uma sifuna ukuba “ngabaqondisi bomoya ezinganeni zethu, kufanele sisebenze ngenkuthalo nangokuzibophezela okukhulu ukuze silondoloze ubuntwana babo.  Senza uphawu lwethu olukhulu ebuntwaneni babo.  Ubusha buzolandela ukuza njengesiphepho noma isiphepho esiyikho.  Uma siqinile futhi siqinile ebuhlotsheni bethu nabo, siyosinda esiphephoni, futhi bayophuma benqobile. 

Lesi yisahluko esibaluleke kakhulu encwadini ukuthi kungadingeka ngihlanganyele kancane nawe esikhathini esizayo.  Ngiyethemba ukuthi uzocabanga ukuthenga le ncwadi ukuze sikwazi ukuzibandakanya ezingxoxweni futhi mhlawumbe njengeqembu labazali nabanakekeli bezingane singasekelana nenhlalakahle yezingane zethu.