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Bana ke mpho e kgolo go di gaisa tsotlhe tse batho ba di neilweng.

Gompieno ke tlile go abelana karolo ya kgaolo ya  lesome ya buka ya me – “Embracing the Gift of Parenthood: How to Create a Loving Relationship with Your Children”.

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Eno ke kgaogelo fela ya kgaolo e e latelang!

Kgaolo ya Lesome

Tshediso Sekao

Go Go Gadget With Leilani in Preschool

Ke bana ba le kae ba ba nang le bokgaitsadi ba bone mo tlelaseng ya bone ya sekolo?

Le fa go ntse jalo, ke sa ntse ke direla bomorwadiake le bomorwadiake dijo tse di botlhokwa>

“Go ruta bana e ne e le selo se ke se ratang thata e bile se sa ntse se le teng.  Ke solofela gore ke bontshitse morwadiake gore ga ke dire fela gore ke fitlhelele bokgoni jwa me jotlhe, mme gape ke tsibogetse “pitso ya me ya bokamoso”. Re tshwanetse go baya sekao mo baneng ba rona

Ke a lemoga

Ke a itse gore le nna ke na le boikarabelo jwa go nna sotlhe se nka se kgonang go nna sone, ka jalo o tla itse gore le wena o tla dira se se tshwanang.

Quotes: Bertrand Russell o kile a re: “Boitumelo jo bo kgotsofatsang tota bo tsamaisana le tiriso e e tletseng ya bokgoni jwa rona le go diragatsa lefatshe le re tshelang mo go lone.” Goethe A Go Go says: “Gongwe le gongwe kwa motho a ka yang teng, go sa kgathalesege gore motho o ka dira eng, o tla feleletsa a boela mo tseleng e tlholego e mo laetseng.” Mme Anne Frank says: “Batsadi ba ka ba naya kgakololo e e siameng fela kgotsa ba ba baya mo tseleng e e siameng, mme sebopego sa bofelo sa botho jwa motho se mo diatleng tsa bone.”

Potso:

Nka bontsha ngwana wa me jang gore ke ikutlwa ke tshwanelwa ke se se molemo mo botshelong, gore ke a ithata e bile ke a itlotla, gore ke kgona go bontsha ditshono tse di sa lekanyediwang mo botshelong jwa me, mme ka jalo ke solofela se se tshwanang mo go bone?

Karabo ya potso eno e ikaegile ka gore ke ka ntlha yang fa ke kwadile buka eno.  For years I have promised and been asked to write about what I’m passionate about “children”.  Nna le kgaitsadiake Patti re nnile le metlotlo e mentsi ka go laola matshelo a rona le go tsaya kgato mo tumelong go araba “pitso ya rona ya bokamoso”.  Mongwe le mongwe mo lelapeng la rona o ne a latela tsela ya batsadi ba rona ya go direla ba bangwe.  Re le bararo ba rona ba dira mo thutopatlisisong mme mongwe wa rona o dira mo bodireding jwa bosetšhaba le jwa boditšhabatšhaba.  Seno se akaretsa go leka go fetola matshelo a batho ba bangwe go netefatsa gore ba na le botshelo jo bo tletseng le jo bo nang le bokao.  Jaaka batsadi, rotlhe re ne ra tshwanelwa ke go dira se se ka lebegang e le go intsha setlhabelo, mme kwa bofelong, Mowa o Mogolo ka gale o lebega o dira tsela ya go diragatsa tsholofetso ya Gagwe mo go rona.  Mowa o mogolo o re roma fano go diragatsa maikaelelo a rona, mme ga re kitla re tswa mo lefelong leno go fitlhelela tiro ya rona e wediwa.  Ka jalo, re tshwanetse go tswelela pele mo matshelong a rona mme re nne le maikaelelo a go batla ditsela le ditšhono tsa go nna sotlhe se re ka se kgonang.  

Nna le kgaitsadiake Patti re ne re akanya gore bana ba rona ba emetse go bona gore re tlile go nna kgakala go le kana kang.  Ba ne ba re bona re atlegile mo maitekong a rona a tiro, mme ga ba ise ba re bone re tswa mo lebokoseng le go leka sengwe se se sa tlwaelegang ka lobaka lo loleele.  Re ne re na le dikgopolo tse di kgatlhang thata mme re ne ra leka go bontsha dingwe tsa tsone.  Ka tsela nngwe, re ikgobatsa ka go letla ditiro tsa rona gore di tseye maikarabelo.  Jaanong ke tlhaloganya gore seno ke seipato sa go tila go palelwa.  A go tlhoka tumelo go ne ga tswa mo go nna?  Nka dira jang gore ngwana wa me a nne le seabe mo botshelong jwa me le gore ga ke dumele?  Nka dira jang gore ngwana wa me a ikutlwe a le matlhagatlhaga fa ke sa leke dilo tse dintšhwa le tse di farologaneng? Patti a re re phuthologile thata, mme ga re batle go tsenya mo kotsing ka maikutlo a rona a a sa siamang.  Ke dumela gore re ka kgona go dira dilo tse di fetang bongwe ka nako.  Le fa go ntse jalo, go na le tekatekano.  O tshwanetse go baya maikaelelo a gago kwa pele.  O tshwanetse go leba tiro ya gago kgotsa “tiro” ya gago ka tsela e e siameng.  Ke segofadiwa, e seng ka gonne ke rata “tiro” ya me, mme ke a itse gore ke dira se “Mowa o Mogolo” o batlang gore ke se dire go ya ka “pitso ya me ya bokamoso”.  Gape ke a itse gore ke tshwanetse go dira go le gontsi go feta se ke se dirang.  Baebele ya re: “Go solofetswe go le gontsi mo go ba ba neilweng.”  Ga ke batle gore ngwana wa me e nne mongwe wa ba ba bidiwang “ba ba atlegileng”. Ke batla fela gore a nne se a neng a bopetswe go nna sone le go nna le seabe mo go se a bileditsweng go se dira mo lefatsheng.

Go lebega e kete fa re tshela mo lefelong le le boitshepo la maikaelelo, re tla ithuta dilo tse disha ka rona le ka dimpho tsa rona.  Re ka tlhopha go itlhokomolosa dimpho tseno, kgotsa re ka tlhopha go di dirisa.  Bana ba rona ba tlhoka gore re tlhome sekao sa go tlhaloganya dinako tseo tsa kgwetlho le go di fetola ditshono tsa go bontsha botlhale le botlhale jwa rona.  Re ne ra simolola go tsamaya ka dinao.  Re tshwanetse go bona se re ka se dirang ka natla le ka boikemisetso.  Ba tshwanetse go re thusa go tshela botshelo jwa rona ka matlhagatlhaga le ka matlhagatlhaga.  Seno ga se reye gore re tshela mo lefatsheng le le nang le maemo a a kwa godimo le a a kwa tlase, mme go raya gore re ka dirisa ditšhono tsa go igwetlha le go gaisana le rona go itshupa gore re “tshela” le go tshela botshelo ka botlalo!

Chapter Ten Reflection

Go ikatisa: Tlhalosa dilo mo botshelong jwa gago tse di ka go kgoreletsang go nna sengwe le sengwe se o ka kgonang go nna sone. Tlhalosa gore ke eng se o ka se dirang gore o se ka wa kgona go dira dilo tse di sa siamang tse di go kgoreletsang gore o se ka wa kgona go dira dilo tse di sa siamang.

Dilo Tse di Nkgoreletsang go Boela Kwa Morago:	Ditsela tsa go fokotsa boima jwa mmele tse di suleng:

E ne e le tatso fela!