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“Ukufundisa esikoleni samabanga aphansi bekuyintshisekelo yami enkulu futhi namanje kuyintshisekelo yami enkulu.  Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngikhombisile indodakazi yami ukuthi ngisebenze ukufeza hhayi kuphela wonke amandla ami, kodwa ukuthi ngiphendule “ucingo lwami lokudalelwa”. “Kubalulekile ukuthi sibe yisibonelo ezinganeni zethu

Ngiyabona

Ngiyaqonda ukuthi nginomthwalo wemfanelo wokuba yikho konke engingaba yikho ukuze wazi ukuthi ngilindele ukuthi wenze okufanayo.

Izingcaphuno: UBertrand Russell wake wathi: “Injabulo eyanelisayo ngempela ihambisana nokuzivocavoca okugcwele kwamakhono ethu kanye nokugcwaliseka okugcwele kwezwe esiphila kulo.” UGoethe wake wathi: “Nomaphi lapho umuntu angaphendukela khona, noma yini umuntu angayenza, uzohlala ebuyela endleleni imvelo embekele yona.” U-Anne Frank wake wathi: “Abazali banganikeza izeluleko ezinhle kuphela noma bababeke ezindleleni ezifanele, kepha ukwakheka kokugcina komlingiswa womuntu kusezandleni zabo.”

Umbuzo:

Ngibonisa kanjani ingane yami ukuthi ngizizwa ngifanelekile okungcono kakhulu empilweni, ukuthi ngiyazithanda futhi ngiyazihlonipha, ukuthi ngiyakwazi ukuveza amathuba angenamkhawulo empilweni yami, ngakho-ke ngilindele okufanayo kubo?

Ngicabanga ukuthi impendulo yalo mbuzo isekelwe ekutheni ngibhala le ncwadi.  Iminyaka eminingi ngithembise futhi ngacelwa ukuba ngibhale ngalokho engikuthandayo “izingane”.  Mina nodadewethu uPatti sibe nezingxoxo eziningi mayelana nokuphatha izimpilo zethu nokuphuma okholweni ukuze siphendule “ucingo lwethu lokudalelwa”.  Wonke umuntu emndenini wethu ulandele indlela yabazali bethu yokusebenzela abanye.  Abathathu bethu bafunda kwezemfundo kanti omunye wethu usebenza ekunakekelweni kwezempilo kuzwelonke nakwamanye amazwe.  Konke kuncike ekusebenzeni ekuzameni ukuguqula izimpilo zabanye ukuqinisekisa ukuthi bayakwazi ukufinyelela empilweni egcwele nenenjongo.  Njengabazali sonke kuye kwadingeka senze lokho okungase kubonakale njengokuzidela, kodwa ekugcineni, uMoya Omkhulu uhlala ubonakala wenza indlela yokugcina isithembiso sakhe kithi.  UMoya Omkhulu usithumela lapha ukufeza injongo yethu, futhi asishiyi lo mbuso kuze kube yilapho umsebenzi wethu usuqediwe.  Ngakho-ke, kufanele siqhubekele phambili ezimpilweni zethu futhi sibe nenhloso yokufuna izindlela namathuba okuba yikho konke esingakwenza.  

Mina nodadewethu uPatti singaphansi komqondo wokuthi izingane zethu zilinde ukubona ukuthi sizokwelula ibanga elingakanani.  Basibonile siphumelela emizamweni yethu yobungcweti, kepha abazange basibone siphuma ebhokisini futhi sizama into engajwayelekile isikhathi eside kakhulu.  Sasivame ukuphupha imibono emihle kakhulu futhi empeleni sazama ukuveza eminye yazo.  Ngandlela-thile, siyaziphazamisa ngokuvumela imisebenzi yethu ithathe indawo.  Manje ngiyaqonda ukuthi lokhu kuyisizathu sokugwema ukwehluleka.  O Nkulunkulu wami, ingabe lokhu kuntuleka kokholo kwavela kimi?  Ngingayisekela kanjani amaphupho nenkolelo yengane yami uma ngingakholelwa futhi ngifeza okwami?  Ngingalindela kanjani ukuthi ingane yami ithembe futhi ithembe uma ngingazami izinto ezintsha nezihlukile? UPatti uthe sikhululekile kakhulu, futhi asifuni ukubeka engcupheni umuzwa wethu wokuphepha okungenzeka ukuthi ungamanga.  Ngikholelwa ukuthi singenza izinto ezingaphezu kweyodwa ngasikhathi sinye.  Into esemqoka – ukulinganisela futhi.  Kufanele ubeke phambili izinhloso zakho.  Kufanele ubeke umsebenzi wakho noma “umsebenzi” ngombono.  Ngibusisekile, hhayi ngoba ngiwuthanda kakhulu “umsebenzi” wami, kodwa ngiyazi ukuthi ngenza ncamashi lokho “uMoya Omkhulu” ofuna ngikwenze ngokuya “ngobizo lwami lokudamela”.  Ngiyazi futhi ukuthi ngibizelwe ukwenza okungaphezu kwalokho engikwenzayo.  IBhayibheli lithi: “Kulabo abaphiwe okuningi, kulindeleke okuningi.”  Angifuni ukuthi ingane yami ibe ngomunye walabo ababizwa ngokuthi “abaphumelele kakhulu”. Ngifuna nje ukuthi abe yilokho aklanyelwe ukuba abe yikho futhi anikele kulokho abizelwe ukukwenza emhlabeni.

Kubonakala sengathi uma siphila endaweni engcwele yenhloso, sizothola izinto ezintsha ngathi nezipho zethu.  Singakhetha ukungazinaki lezo zipho, noma singakhetha ukuzisizakala.  Izingane zethu zidinga ukuthi sibe yisibonelo sokubamba lezo zikhathi zenselelo futhi siziguqule zibe ngamathuba okuveza ubuhlakani bethu nobuciko.  Sibeka isondo ekuhambeni.  Siphakamisa ibha yalokho okungenziwa ngokusebenza kanzima nokuzimisela.  Badinga ukufakazela ukuthi siphila impilo yethu ngentshiseko nangamandla.  Lokhu akusho ukuthi siphila ezweni lamaphupho lawo wonke ama-highs futhi akukho okuphansi, kepha kusho ukuthi singawasebenzisa amathuba okuziphonsela inselelo futhi sincintisane nathi ukuze sizibonakalise ukuthi “siyaphila” futhi siphila impilo ngokugcwele!

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