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Indlela Yokulinganisa Ukulondoloza Ukuphila Kwethu

Isahluko Sesishiyagalolunye – Incwadi Elandelayo

Imithandazo yethu ye-mantra yokuthulisa ingqondo

Futhi ukhuthaze umphefumulo.

Lapho “uMoya” ekhuluma, ngilalela futhi ngikwenze!

Angijwayele ukusebenzisa imithandazo ye-Mantra kwamanye amabhulogi ami ngoba ngigcina le mithandazo ye- “Sunday Prayer Blogs”, kodwa namuhla ekuseni “uMoya Omkhulu” ugcwalise umoya wami ukukhuluma nge- “Balancing Act” esiyenzayo ukulondoloza impilo yethu kanye nezimpilo zalabo esibathandayo nabakhathalelayo.  Kuyinto “Isenzo Sokulinganisa” ukuqhubeka nezinto ezidingekayo ukuze kulondolozwe umuzwa othile wokuhleleka nokuhlanzeka, futhi ngasikhathi sinye ube nozwela futhi ube nesihawu kulabo abesatshiswa futhi abahlukunyezwa ezweni lethu nasemhlabeni wethu.  Kufanele silinganise ubungcwele bempilo yethu nenhlalakahle yethu futhi ngasikhathi sinye sisebenzise izipho namakhono ethu ukulwela umzabalazo wokuvikela intando yeningi yethu, amalungelo esintu sonke sethu.

Umkhuleko wethu we-Mantra wokulinganisela-

Abazali kufanele babonise  izingane zabo ukuthi  zingasetshenziswa kanjani

 balinganise ingqondo yabo, umzimba nomoya ukuze baphile “impilo yabo engcono kakhulu”.

Umkhuleko wethu we-Mantra wokulinganisela ~

“Umoya omkhulu”,

Ukuqinisa ikhono lethu lokuthuthukisa nokugcina umqondo  okufanele sigcine singcwele, inhloso yethu yokusebenzisa indlela yokuphila elinganiselayo kuzo zonke izinkundla  zokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kwempilo.   Masingalokothi sikhohlwe  isidingo sethu sokuzibandakanya ezintweni ezizonakekela  ingqondo yethu, umzimba nomoya wethu.  Imvamisa manje emphakathini wanamuhla, okulindelwe ukuthi “imisebenzi” yethu kanye nesiphithiphithi somphakathi yizona eziza kuqala ezimpilweni zethu.  Lo mbono awukude kakhulu nalokho okufanele sikubambe njengento yokuhlala.  Kubalulekile empilweni yethu nenhlalakahle kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwethu, ukwakha indlela yokuphila lapho sibeka khona inhloso yokubeka phambili impilo yethu, umndeni, abangane, imisebenzi yangaphandle, “umsebenzi” wethu, kanye “nesikhathi sami” ngendlela elinganiselayo echazwe ngokucacile enempilo. Siyaqonda ukuthi uma sisebenza ngokudlidliza okuphakeme okuthuthukile, kusivumela ukuba sibe “ebukhoneni” bakho!  Siyaqonda ukuthi lapho “sikhona” ekuphileni kwethu, sihambisana “nobukhona”!  Ukuveza ingqikithi yethu yomphefumulo ngokuvumelana nokuhambisana nawe kunikeza impilo yethu ikhwalithi nenhloso engcwele futhi engcwele!

Umkhuleko wethu we-Mantra wanamuhla:  Ukulinganisela

Ngizophila impilo elinganiselayo ukuze nginakekele ingqondo yami, umzimba wami, imizwelo nomoya wami.