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I thought I would share some of what has guided my life and has helped me meet the challenges life has given me to enhance the evolution of my soul. First, I believe that each of us is a beautiful divine soul energy that was and is created by “Great Spirit”.  I believe that I was created in love, to be loved and to be available to be loving for others. 

My sister Lark, who transitioned at a point in her life that she was making an amazing impact on the world in terms of health services, told us that she “wished that we could see what she sees and know what she knows”.  She told us that all there really was -was “Love”.  She would go outside every night and under the stars have her private conversation with “Great Spirit”.  It was there she got her guidance, protection, and insight to do her “work”- “purpose”.  When she was challenged by the Cancer that took hold of her body, we witnessed the most amazing things that took hold of her “spirit”.  It was through this experience that we learned that we have a contract. A contract you say! Yes, it is a contract that is created for us in collaboration with “Great Spirit”. 

We have lessons that we come here to learn.  We have a divine purpose and a divine identity.  We are, each of us are equipped with everything our soul needs to live the life we have chosen.  We are in the eyes of “Great Spirit”, enough!  We have each of us our own unique gifts that we are to share with the world.  We are each a piece of the puzzle of humanity’s massive work of art.  We all have equal value and we all come form and through the same source.

The equalizer that intervenes in our divine path and sometimes pulls us off track, is the free will and determination we are gifted with as well.  Each of us have different experiences that color the fabric and texture of our life.  Some of us are able to push our way through the challenges and others get trapped into the drama and pain that wipes out their faith and tenacity to stand on their truth, that they are worthy of peace, beauty, love, and joy.  When we are in relationship with people that are racked in so much pain that they inflict pain on others, especially the people they would naturally love to be kind and loving with, we have to realize that they are living their life in and through “pain” and cannot find a way out of their “skin”- “body of pain”.  They greet each new day of their life absorbed in terrifying, destructive, and debilitating pain.  They do not on a conscious level want to inflict hurt and pain on others, but they are at a lost.   Once we know that we are dealing with someone in their pain body, we have to relate to them from a different framework. 

First, we must protect ourselves because we don’t want to take on the effects of their pain and we don’t want to mirror their pain.  It calls for us to secondly, find a healthy way to relate to them that does not put us in harms way.  We can take on their pain and we are not responsible for their pain.  We when figure that out then we can be a grounded in our own truth, our own divine identity, while we infuse love and compassion in the texture of our relationship with them. 

We cannot change who they are or what they have or are experiencing in life that has caused their pain, but being all of who we are might be a liberating choice that they might dare to explore.  We don’t push, we don’t pull, but we let them know that we are not judgmental, and we are open to supporting them if they want to explore how to heal.  It is about healing the pain of their divine soul. Sometimes, it never happens in this lifetime, and they carry their pain into the next lifetime.  We cannot afford to live our life with a soul engulfed in pain.  It is our birth right to have a life experience that gives us joy, peace, and love.

I hope this brings you some things to think about and that it offers you some understanding that you’re not responsible for the pain your grandmother was living her life from.  There is nothing like empathy and compassion. There are times we must give it and times we need to receive it.  Be in your joy!  Be in your peace! Be love and give love!  You are worthy of all that is good and beautiful in life.

This blog is dedicated to my sister Lark Eloise Galloway-Gilliam whose birthday is today-July 21st. She is celebrating the journey she had on earth and is as busy as ever working in the heavenly realm, and in the lives of our family.