How sweet it is to be loved and cared for with “just a little tenderness”. The thread of “Tenderness”, that makes us as human beings so in touch with our authentic selves, seems to have disappeared from the fabric of our lives that we are tending to. You even see it in the animal kingdom as you watch some species tend to their young with a sort of ethereal connection. We have that ability to be tender with each other if we are first loving and tender to ourselves. We have to experience the act of tenderness to actually know what it feels like on the receiving end and what it does for us on a psychological, physiological and spiritual level.
To be tender and loving in your nature of your being, does not mean you are weak or insincere, on the contrary it takes great courage and a strong sense of confidence and awareness of yourself to be able to be vulnerable and open to what sometimes might be rejection of the attention. So many of us are not accustomed to being treated with tenderness and compassion. It is not a given in this world right now that people will show tenderness and kindness to each other. However, that does not mean we are not capable of giving and receiving the acts of tenderness. Tenderness is wrapped in unconditional love.
Tenderness is wrapped in being sensitive and aware of your needs and the needs of others. When we were children being tender and caring, was more natural and is given without forethought or conditions. It is only as their experiences tell them to refrain from being authentically themselves that this ability of tenderness and kindness can diminished. Oh!!!! If only we could keep those amazing elements of our Divine Identity” in our state of childhood into adulthood, our soul expression would be what it was ordained to be in the first place.
Always live your full life daily and intentionally! Always be in touch with your “Divine Identity” for you will see the world differently and respond to it in a way that brings you joy and peace.
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