It is timeless and priceless.
I thought it would be a good idea to share a personal moment in my life as a parent. I remember and still have the letters my Mom wrote to me from childhood through adulthood. Letters that touched my heart and hat with my filled my soul. The words of wisdom she so lovingly shared with me have guided and nurtured me my entire life. I have tried to do that with my Niki as different life challenges have come up on her divine destiny path, so that she would know she is loved and cared for. I am smiling because we have the kind of relationship where she writes me too- just when I need a “word” from her to settle my mind or fill my heart with love. I encourage parents to design their own unique way of kindling a love expression with their child that will sustain that divine connection vibration that was created between them from before birth. So I hope you will feel the love I am expressing to her when I wrote it, because that was my intention.
Keep Your Peace- Protect Your Joy!
A Letter to My Daughter
This is a new day that the Lord has provided!
Enjoy the Joy!
Take hold of your peace!
Be intentional about not falling into the trap that people try to set to draw you into their souls that are lost and Godless instead of God-filled!
You are covered by the blood of Jesus, and that is what you must focus on when any negativity comes at you! Bless them and dismiss them or any situation into His care and control.
When it comes to having to engage with people, before you consider them to be actual friends or partners, you have to use your discernment and set criteria for allowing them to be considered in that category! Ask yourself-
- Are they polite and courteous in the way in which they relate to you and others in your realm of influence?
- Be clear about knowing who you are and what you bring to the table.
- Observe and record- Don’t jump into something that you have not observed.
- At the end of the engagement, review and reflect on your experience and how it made you feel. This enables you to decide:
- How to relate to this person
- If this person meets your standards as a friend-partner or just someone if it is work related-that you have to find a way to engage in a way that keeps you healthy.
- Observe how you respond to different personalities and what work for you.
- Realize you can adjust to different personalities when you are not invested in temporary relationships. If you find yourself in a situation where you are working with someone whose personality does not resonate with you, and it is more permanent than you have to evaluate if this is conducive for your highest good. If it is a relationship on a personal level, then you have to make some serious decisions on how to communicate your needs so that the relationship is healthy and sustainable.
These elements don’t matter with what I call “Shift workers” only real partners in life:
*Philosophy of Life-
*Political Views
*Morals and Values
*If they like you
Cause it really does not matter because “Shift Workers” are like ships that will pass in the night.
You have an intention for why you are doing in life, and you only have to continue to put in the time and energy to develop your skills and relationships with the people that “get you” and you “get them”.
It has to make you happy most of the time realistically or re-evaluate if this is where and what you want to do. Ask yourself, am I myself, and am I happy engaging with this person?
Remember you always have options you just have to ask God and trust what He brings your way.
Be open-
Be observant-
Be flexible-
Be yourself and be comfortable in yourself-
Not every day will be good, but the good days will outweigh the bad days, or it is not where you should be or what you should be doing, and definitely not engaged with someone that takes you out of your joy and peace.
It must be more effortless in most elements of your “work”- please find and do your “work” and not a “job”. There is work in sustaining a relationship, but it should not feel like you lose yourself and reside in an “out of body” life experience. Our relationships should enhance our life light, not consume it or sniff it out!
You deserve to be happy and fulfilled in all aspects of your life because you invest completely in everything and everyone. I know you to be a compassionate empath!
Be gentle with yourself!
Move through things slowly and thoughtfully!
You got this cause ultimately God got you in the palms of His hands and handles everything that comes your way. Remember you have a “divine identity” and there is a “divine plan for your life”.
You are blessed and highly favored!
Love,
Mommey-
Elizabeth M. Evans
January 7, 2021
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